Hello from the LAST YEAR of teaching my kids to read! If you're a homeschool mom like me, you're probably well-acquainted with the mixed bag of emotions that comes with this monumental task. Teaching your children to read is one of the most rewarding, yet challenging, parts of homeschooling. As with any stage in parenting, there are pros and cons, and today, I'm here to share my thoughts on both, along with some tips and encouragement to help you on your journey.
The Cons: The Challenges of Teaching Your Child to Read
1. Some Frustrations
One of the most common frustrations I’ve faced is the inevitable moment when my child just isn’t getting it. Whether it’s struggling with blending sounds or forgetting a word they mastered yesterday, these hurdles can feel like climbing a mountain. Research suggests that each child’s reading journey is unique, with some needing more time and repetition than others . Patience is key here. Remember, the goal is to make reading a positive experience, so take breaks when needed, and remind yourself (and your child) that it's okay to struggle.
Tip: Incorporate games and playful activities to reduce frustration. Tools like letter tiles, flashcards, and phonics apps can turn a tough lesson into a fun challenge.
2. It Feels Repetitive
Let’s be honest: teaching reading can sometimes feel like you’re on a never-ending loop of "The cat sat on the mat." Repetition is necessary for mastery, but it can be tiresome for both you and your child. Finding fresh ways to engage with the material is crucial to maintaining interest.
Tip: Mix up your reading materials. Use simple storybooks, online resources, and even homemade books featuring your child’s favorite characters. Changing up the content can make the repetition less monotonous.
Need inspiration? Check out this conversation with a reading interventionist who had SO many great ideas for teaching kids to read.
3. It Can Require Multiple Angles to Find What Works
Not every child learns to read in the same way, and finding the right approach can be like solving a puzzle. Phonics might work for one child, while whole language methods might resonate with another. The trial-and-error process can be exhausting, but it’s a necessary part of tailoring your teaching to your child’s needs.
Tip: Be open to experimenting with different methods. If one approach isn’t clicking, try another. There are a plethora of resources available, from phonics programs to Montessori methods, so don't be afraid to switch things up until you find the perfect fit.
Need to try something different? Here’s another perspective on how we redirect when things are heading south!
The Pros: The Joys of Teaching Your Child to Read
1. Lots of Snuggles
One of the most cherished aspects of teaching my kids to read has been the built-in cuddle time. There’s something special about curling up on the couch with a good book, your child nestled under your arm, and the world fading away as you explore new adventures together. It’s in these moments that the bond between parent and child strengthens, creating memories that will last a lifetime.
Tip: Make reading time a special, cozy ritual. Grab a blanket, some snacks, and settle into a comfy spot. The physical closeness will help your child associate reading with positive emotions.
2. Crafts Galore
Teaching reading opens the door to a world of creativity. From making letter crafts to creating storyboards, incorporating crafts into reading lessons can make learning more engaging and hands-on. It’s a fantastic way to reinforce concepts and allow your child to express their understanding in a tangible way.
Tip: Integrate themed crafts that align with the stories you’re reading. For example, if you’re reading about animals, create animal masks or habitats. These activities not only reinforce the lesson but also add an element of fun that makes reading more enjoyable.
I’m not artsy, friends. It’s a good thing we found ARTVenturousAnimals early on to help with this!
3. The First Smiles: "I DID IT!"
There’s nothing quite like witnessing the moment your child realizes they can read. That first, triumphant smile when they sound out a word on their own is priceless. It’s in these moments that all the frustrations, repetitions, and multiple angles are worth it. You’re not just teaching them to read; you’re giving them a lifelong skill that will open doors to endless possibilities.
Tip: Celebrate every milestone, no matter how small. Whether it’s reading a single word or finishing their first book, acknowledge their progress. A little encouragement goes a long way in boosting their confidence and motivation.
What I’ll Miss (and Not Miss) About This Stage
As I approach the end of this chapter, I find myself reflecting on what I’ll miss and what I won’t. I’ll miss the snuggles, the crafts, and those "I did it!" moments that light up their faces. I’ll miss the feeling of accomplishment that comes with knowing I played a pivotal role in helping my child unlock the world of reading.
But I won’t miss the frustrations, the endless repetitions, or the trial and error that sometimes felt like it would never end. I won’t miss the days when I questioned whether I was doing it right, or the moments of doubt that crept in when progress seemed slow.
In the end, the pros far outweigh the cons. The journey of teaching your child to read is filled with challenges, but it’s also filled with joy, love, and growth—for both you and your child. So, to all the homeschool moms out there, keep going! Embrace the snuggles, power through the tough spots, and remember that you are giving your child one of the greatest gifts they’ll ever receive.
And when it’s all said and done, you’ll look back and realize it was worth every moment.
